8.21 Dead Reflection **SPOILERS** Apr 20, 2011 13:27:53 GMT -5
Post by Lelu on Apr 20, 2011 13:27:53 GMT -5
The point of a fanboard is that we all like the show or someone on the show or something about the show. That's why we're here.
However, that doesn't mean we're all going to have the same opinion about everything and/or everyone on the show. I live with my sister - and we don't always agree about everything. How can we expect to agree on everything when we're such a big "family" from all over the world?
The point of a discussion thread is to ... discuss. We're not here to change minds -- just to share our thoughts and opinions. Key word here: OPINIONS.
Lelu and I don't agree 100% about Gibbs. The way they've written him has totally turned her off - and I believe she has made many valid points -- but that doesn't change the fact that I still like him. A lot. *lol* Lelu does not think I'm stupid for liking him - she does not argue with me about it. Neither do I argue with her, trying to make her change her mind.
There's nothing wrong with stating that you disagree with someone else's opinion. That's part of the discussion process, in my opinion. But continuing to argue that YOU are right and someone else is wrong because they don't share your opinion ... that's just a pain in the patootie.
We need to share our thoughts -- and not attack someone when their "thoughts" are different from ours. Okay?
Do I sound like Pollyanna?
Now, I think it's time to get back to discussing the episode.
And I STILL love the face/mask idea...
Thanks Jo! Well said.
Face/mask, stinky LOL